1. Remember (sweet memories)
2. Forgive (wrong doings)
3. Forget (delete from your memory what you've forgiven)
The critical control step! If faithfully observed, positive feedback system A. If fail to be observed, negative feedback system B.
Feedback system A: accept things that cannot be changed graciously (may develop into 5)
Feedback system B: tolerate things that cannot be changed with grudge (may develop into 6)
5. "Happily ever after" & repeat from no.1
6. Volcano erupts one day & the whole system breaks down
This system is highly sensitive & needs constant lubricants (lots of care, concern, patience, communication & commitment).
Romantic, creativity, humorous & surprises are highly recommended parts of the system.
Once break down, will need even more lubricants & top grade parts for repair OR be prepared to scrap it.
The fact is bread & $$ are involved all the time. So must make sure they are always present but not to pose a problem to the system.
Sunday, May 13, 2007
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